But here’s the truth: Negative comments are as inevitable as autocorrect errors. They happen. And it doesn’t matter if you're just starting out or if you're a seasoned content creator. The key is how you deal with them—spoiler: it's not by letting them destroy your spirit or dictate your next move.
Let’s dive into the not-so-glamorous reality of handling negative feedback and how you can turn it into something that propels you forward. It’s easier than you think.
1. The Sting of One Negative Comment—And How to Keep Going
When I started posting videos, it didn’t take much for one negative comment to knock me off my game. I’d obsess over it, wondering if I was doing everything wrong. "Why does this person hate me?" I'd think. "What if they’re right?"
But here’s the deal: one comment does not define you—and neither should it define your content or your career. Think about it. The most successful creators, the ones you look up to, have always dealt with criticism. If anything, negative comments are proof that you’re putting yourself out there, doing something that matters, and (unfortunately) inviting people to share their opinions, whether they’re helpful or not.
Imagine you're on a busy street corner, and you get that one guy who tells you to "get a real job." You wouldn’t let that guy dictate your whole day, would you? You’d keep walking, right? Same thing with negative comments. Keep walking.
2. Treat Negative Feedback Like a Buffet: Take What’s Helpful, Leave the Rest
Negative comments can feel like someone just threw a wet towel on your enthusiasm, but here’s a little secret: you can choose how much of it you let in.
Here’s where the buffet analogy comes in. Think of feedback like a buffet of random dishes. Some of them are delicious and packed with value. Others? Not so much. Some are just there to fill space or make noise. But you don’t need to eat everything on the table. You can pick what serves you and leave the rest behind.
If someone points out something valid, like, "Hey, your lighting could use some work," that’s valuable. Take it! It helps you grow. But if someone just says, “Your voice is annoying,” well... that’s the soggy broccoli you don’t need to add to your plate.
Feedback is a tool. Use it to get better, not to destroy your confidence. No one gets better at anything without a little constructive criticism, so when it comes, just smile, nod, and keep moving forward.
3. The Truth About the ‘Haters’
Let’s face it: some people just like being critical. Maybe it’s their personality, maybe they’ve had a bad day—who knows? But you’re going to encounter them. And that’s perfectly fine.
Here’s a fun analogy: think of haters like traffic. Sometimes it flows smoothly, and other times, it’s a total mess. But does that mean you should stop driving? No! You keep going, even if you hit a red light. The same goes for your content. Sure, there will be bumps in the road, but the destination—the value you bring to your audience—is totally worth it.
Even the most successful content creators get negative comments. Seriously. If Beyoncé can handle someone telling her she can’t sing, you can definitely handle a keyboard warrior. You know what this proves? You’re doing something right. When you start gaining attention, both good and bad, it means you’re making waves. And that’s exactly what you want.
4. Focus on the Value You’re Delivering
Instead of focusing on the naysayers, double down on your mission to provide value to your audience. Ask yourself: Who are you creating for? Who benefits from your content? The answer is not the person who leaves snarky remarks under your videos. It’s the person who watches, learns, and feels inspired.
I know it’s tempting to get bogged down by the negative, but remember: you’re here to make an impact, not to win over every internet troll. By shifting your focus back to what you’re doing, you’ll find that the negative comments start to matter less and less.
And if you feel yourself spiraling down into negativity, take a break. Grab some fresh air, get some perspective, and remember why you started in the first place.
5. What’s Your Situation When Shooting Videos?
Now, I’m curious—what’s your situation when you're shooting videos? Are you setting up shop in your living room, hoping your cat doesn’t make a surprise appearance in the background? Or are you the type to scout the perfect lighting at the crack of dawn for that golden hour shot?
Your content creation journey is unique to you, and it’s important to embrace whatever “situation” you find yourself in. Whether you’re working with limited resources or have all the fancy equipment, keep creating. Don’t let one bad comment stop you from delivering your message. The world needs your voice, and that’s more important than any keyboard criticism.
Signoff:
So, my fellow creators, remember: Negative comments are a part of the ride. Take them in stride, focus on the value you're delivering, and above all, keep putting yourself out there. You're doing great. Keep creating, keep sharing, and most importantly, keep being you.
Until next time,
Your #1 Supporter (and fellow content creator),
Sangeetha Shee
PS: Have you ever dealt with a truly ridiculous comment? Share it with me in the comments below! Let's laugh about it together. And hey, if you're feeling extra generous, hit that share button—it helps me spread the good vibes (and the occasional roast-worthy comment).
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